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Domo arigato, Mr. ProgSoc-o

January 22, 2009 at 12:08:17
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Well, at least the previous post wasn't my last. But this one could be :P

Before I continue on my voyage of self-indulgence, I would like to pass on a token of gratitude to the Programmers' Society of the University of Technology, Sydney (or 'ProgSoc' for short) for providing the facilities to allow my dream of having my own blog to become a reality, not because I'm obligated to do so (my membership's all paid up), but because I want to! So, er, thanks :)

As implied in the previous paragraph, I am a member of the club. I joined relatively recently in October last year and only started to attend their regular weekly meetings in the dying days of December [1].

I joined ProgSoc mainly because of my interest in computer programming. Perhaps I was in search of inspiration (what program [2] should I write next? etc.) I also joined simply to make friends. I will say this is a new experience for me, as I tend not to socialise or hang out with a group of people, which is why I have my doubts as to whether this whole thing is for me or not.

In the short time I've spent in their company, I must say they are a peculiar bunch, with a president who thinks he's Neo from The Matrix, a vice-president whose behaviour can best be described thusly and a 'key-holder' who's keen on sharing some of his 'interesting' philosophies with all who are in ear shot, amongst others. On the surface, they appear to be the very antithesis of a society (if you've attended a meeting, you'll know what I mean).

But you know what? I think I might grow to like their collective quirkiness (and vice versa). After all, I too have my own idiosyncrasies.

...nor has there been much in the way of organised activity. Maybe it's the summer time. Maybe it gets a bit more interesting when most people are back from their semester break. For now, I've decided to stay a little bit longer to see how things pan out.

Tom

Further reading:
My maiden post to the ProgSoc list

[1] Admiral of alliteration, am I!

[2] Speaking of idiosyncrasies, my spelling of the word 'program(me)' is inconsistent. I use the American spelling only when referring to computer programs, yet I use the British spelling for all other types of programmes. I don't know why I adhere to this convention. Might have something to do with the United States being a major centre of computer science-related research (yes, I refer to pop-up windows on a computer screen with a question or statement and one or more clickable buttons as a 'dialog box', for similar reasons).

Last updated: November 23, 2009 at 16:01:33

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On February 25, 2009 at 16:27:01
Kristy wrote:

Ok, reading your post on that mailing list, it seems
to me that you were unfair on those at the meeting.

You can't expect people who belong to a "close knit
group" to just open their arms, make you feel
comfortable, wrap you in cotton wool and so forth.

YOU have to be the one to make the effort. YOU
have to be the one saying hello, shaking hands,
introducing yourself.

The average person also finds these tasks a bit
intimidating, it's not just you. Granted you probably
find it a little harder than most.

Kudos to you for joining a group and wanting to
make friends. I suggest that you keep going. I also
think you should "fake it till you make it" which
means pretend to be confident and sociable until it
becomes natural to you.

On February 25, 2009 at 18:06:38
Tom wrote:

Well, I am pleased to report that now I feel like 'one of the gang' and that they are my friends :) All it took was a little bit of persistence...and I didn't have to "fake it 'til I made it" either. Week after week, I kept coming back and eventually I warmed to them and they warmed to me. The big breakthrough came last week - Orientation Week - when I helped man the club's stall during Union Club Day. There I was, promoting my club to all who approached our stall, selling memberships and giving away copies of our club's flagship publication. I was in the zone. I was the uberspruiker. I think my fellow members saw a side of me they hadn't seen before. *Then* I truly felt as if I was one of them! We managed to make a fair bit in registration fees from newly-signed suckers...er, first-years, so all in all, it was a good day...

It really is a wonderful feeling to belong :)

All that stuff that I wrote on the mailing list...all water under the bridge now...except for that bit about them being "anti-social
creatures by nature" - that still stands :P


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